Discovering You Life Coaching
"It's inevitable that you change when you become a mum, and it's during that transformation where most women tend to get 'stuck' or feel lost. We struggle to see our real potential and as a result, we lose sight of our hopes and dreams." Hayley Fualau
This one on one coaching program covers six essential personal development components: values, beliefs, goals, skills, support and success. By completing the Discovering You program you will…
Learn how to make decisions that are in line with your values. So the choices you make allow you to live a life you are proud of, not a life full of regret.
What you valued before you started a family has probably changed a lot!
Imagine that you must decide between taking option A or option B – how do you know which one to choose?
By knowing your values. When you know your values, decision making becomes easy as your values are what's most important to you.
Knowing your values can be really handy when it comes to deciding on what kindergarten to put your kids into, what job to accept, choosing to stay in a relationship, or figuring out what type of place you want to live. Knowing your highest values provides you with direction and gives meaning to your life.
Explore empowering and dis-empowering beliefs. Stop the excuses and telling yourself that you can’t. You can!
Have you ever wanted to make new friends, apply for a job, ask someone out on a date or try something new but then decided to not follow through because you believed that you were either not good enough, pretty enough or even smart enough?
Maybe you don’t even bother pursuing certain things because you have automatic negative beliefs. It’s important to identify your core dis-empowering and negative beliefs as they can have harmful consequences on your life.
Challenging your dis-empowering beliefs and replacing these with more empowering beliefs will allow you to understand yourself better whilst creating a healthier and happier life for yourself and your family.
Did you know that most people are carrying around many dis-empowering beliefs that sabotage their success every day and they don’t even know it?
Establish goals that excite and motivate you. Stop wandering through life and take control of your future. You can create a life of your dreams.
Have you ever dreamed of having your own business? Or maybe you wanted to buy a house, start a savings plan, or start studying?. Unless you have a specific action plan in place your dreams will stay just that.
It’s time to turn your dreams into reality. You really can create a life full of meaning, purpose, and excitement. Take control of how your life turns out. The best bit is you get to choose how your life unfolds and that’s pretty powerful!
Having goals is a critical part of living a successful life. Your goals should excite, motivate, challenge, and inspire you to learn and grow. Goals are a crucial step in turning your dreams into a reality.
When you take the time to explore your goals, you’re able to easily decide what you want to achieve in your life, separate what’s important from what’s not, all while building your self-confidence on the achievement of your goals.
Create a skills development plan. Increase your self-confidence, personal growth and knowledge to become more successful in your chosen (paid or unpaid) career.
The times when we are the happiest, are when we are using our natural talents and skills to perform something that we are excited about.
When you know your strengths and can use them often, you are able to have more success in several areas of your life. You will be happier, have higher self-esteem, and are more likely to achieve your goals.
But, you don’t have to be good at everything! If you are not interested in playing sports, then it doesn’t matter If you’re not the fit, sporty athletic type.
Your weaknesses can hold you back from what you are wanting to achieve. When you can acknowledge your weaknesses, you can either choose to address them and improve or come to the realisation that you don’t need to excel in ‘athletics’ or ‘baking’ for example.
Take control of who you spend time with. Feel less lonely, isolated or judged. Choose people who make you laugh and inspire you to be your best.
It’s common for our friendships to change once we become mothers, it's easy to become derailed if you are not surrounding yourself with a great support network.
Your support network consists of people who make you laugh, make you think, challenge you and inspire you, which all contributes to your success.
We only have a limited amount of precious time each day, so we should only invest our time in people who help us to grow and get us closer to our dreams, but quite often this is not the case.
When was the last time you questioned your friendships? Are you friends with people out of convenience because you grew up with them, they’re your neighbours or because you went to the same school?
Do the people you surround yourself with challenge you, make you a better person or make you laugh? Or are you surrounding yourself with people who put you down, pressure you into doing things you’re not comfortable doing or maybe just bring out the worst in you?
The good news is that you’re totally in charge of who you spend your time with if you’re up to the challenge!
Start to view success on your own terms. Build a life you are proud to live and not a life others expect you to live.
Personal success and happiness ultimately come from enhanced self-awareness, but too often we are easily influenced by social media or the perception of others on the meaning of success, but success has no meaning except for what you choose to give it.
It’s time to give success a meaning that is real and right for you, because as a mother success will take on different meanings at different times of your life and it’s important to re-evaluate every now and then. For example, success to you may have been to just finish a hot cup of coffee today! Or it might be upskilling and looking at finding meaningful employment.